My Life and My Journey: 2009

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Menembus Kemustahilan

Musim dingin 1997. Sesosok bayi perempuan ditinggalkan di sebuah sekolah khusus guru di kota Changde, Provinsi Hunan, Cina. Wajahnya bulat, dengan rambut hitam tipis dan telinga mirip kelopak bunga dari porselen. Bayi itu menjadi yatim, dan sejak saat itu, nasibnya ada ditangan orang asing, sampai disebuah hari yang dingin pada Maret 1998.

Linda dan Owen Wells saling berpelukan di dalam pintu masuk sebuah gedung pemerintahan yang agak gelap di Changsha, Cina. Mereka tengah menunggu "bus bayi". Setelah berbulan-bulan melalui carut-marut birokrasi, pasangan Amerika itu akhirnya datang ke Cina untuk mengadopsi seorang anak.

Linda berperawakan pendek, cantik dan penuh semangat, berjalan mondar-mandir sambil membolak-balik dokumen yang ia pegang, popok, dan botol susu. Sementara Owen tampak kelelahan setelah penantian panjangnya, tapi terlihat tenang, memandang keluar jendela dengan tatapan penuh harap. Akhirnya, ia melihat sebuah van datang. Sembilan wanita muda - perawat anak yatim- keluar dengan menggendong sesuatu berbungkus kain yang tampak menggeliat di tangan mereka.

AYO CEK, PADA PAKAI OTAK KIRI ATAU OTAK KANAN

(1) Satukan dan lipat kedua tangan seperti saat berdoa. Perhatikan tangan
anda - apa yang terlihat ?

Jika jempol kiri di atas jempol kanan --> otak kiri

Jika jempol kanan di atas jempol kiri --> otak kanan

(2) Sekarang lipat lengan tangan menyilang di depan dada (seperti saat
duduk di bangku SD).

Jika Tangan kanan di atas tangan kiri --> otak kiri

Jika Tangan kiri di atas tangan kanan --> otak kanan

Kesimpulan :

Dari kedua pengamatan di atas (1+2), di bawah ini adalah interpretasi
dari kepribadian anda :

KANAN-KIRI

Penuh pertimbangan, tradisional, jenis tidak langsung.

Secara naluri bisa membaca emosi orang lain, dan tanggapannya secara

alamiah bersahabat.

Walaupun tidak terlalu berinisiatif dalam melangkah maju, tetapi akan

selalu memberikan dukungan di belakang orang lain.

Memiliki kepribadian yang stabil dan penuh pertimbangan,

sehingga memberikan perasaan terlindungi bagi orang lain.

Tetapi kelemahannya adalah mereka tidak bisa berkata "tidak";

meskipun sebetulnya tidak ingin, mereka tetap akan berusaha

menyenangkan orang lain.

KANAN-KANAN

Tipe orang yang menyukai tantangan, berterus terang.

Satu kali mereka memutuskan satu hal, akan segera mengambil

tindakan.

Sangat ingin tahu dan menyukai tantangan. Berani menghadapi

tantangan tanpa berpikir jauh (kadang kala dengan bodoh).

Kelemahannya adalah mereka tidak mendengarkan orang lain, dan hanya

menyaring apa yang ingin mereka dengar dalam suatu percakapan,

serta sangat subyektif

Bagaimana pun juga, karena sikap terus terangnya, mereka cenderung

dengan wajar menjadi orang yang populer.

KIRI-KIRI

Berdedikasi, dingin, perfeksionis, sangat logis dalam semua aspek.

Satu-satunya cara untuk mengalahkan (atau memperngaruhi) mereka

adalah dengan memberikan alasan-alasan yang tepat.

Mereka punya banyak kebanggaan, dan merasa kuat untuk melalukan

hal-hal yang benar

Jika mereka menjadi temanmu, mereka sangat bisa dipercaya.

Akan tetapi jika mereka adalah lawan, maka akan sangatsusah

untuk membuat kesepakatan dengan mereka.

Karena mereka bisa begitu perfeksionis, maka biasanya mereka

meninggalkan kesan yang buruk karenasusah untuk membuat

kesepakatan saat pertama kali bertemu.

KIRI-KANAN

Suka memperhatikan orang lain, tipe pemimpin.

Punya kemampuan mengamati yang tajam dan dingin dalam memandang

melalui berbagai situasi, dan bahkan masih bisa menimbang untuk

kebutuhan yang lain.

Karena mereka memiliki pembawaan yang kalem dan dingin, dan rasa

tanggung jawab yang kuat, mereka bisa menjadi pemimpin dalam

kelompok.

Populer diantara orang lain. Bagaimana pun, mereka mungkin tidak

bisa menahan dirinya untuk mencampuri urusan orang lain karena

mereka selalu punya keinginan yang kuat untuk memperhatikan orang

lain.

Selalu peduli dengan pandangan orang lain tentang dirinya, dan

selalu waspada.

Sumber : http://www.kaskus.us/showthread.php?t=2043635

Thursday, March 5, 2009

How well do you know me...

1. Where you and I met?

2. How long have you known me?

3. Your first impression of me upon meeting/seeing me?

4. Am I funny?

5. What's my personality is like?

6. Have you ever hugged me?

7. If there was one good nickname for me, what would it be?

8. If I die, what would you say to me in your heart?

9. Where do you think I will be in 10 years?

10. What do you like about me?

11. What do you hate about me?

12. Will you attend my wedding if I invite you?

13. What song reminds you of me?

14. Tell me one of your special experience with me..

15. Will you re-post this so I can fill this out for you?

Thursday, February 19, 2009

The Real You...

Personality test : The Real Me...

Here is the analysis:

1. You've got great self-confidence and you're full of charm. Most guys who get to know you will be attracted to you. You are far from sweet and proper; your intriguing personality fascinates them. Most guys find it easy to fall for a girl like you.
2. You don't really care about other people's feelings. You do things the way you want and usually think only about yourself. You are easy-going and love to have fun, but you can be irresponsible as well. You are not keen on serious discussions because they can make you remember that life isn't always about parties.
3. You are a bright, cheerful and bubbly person. You are thoughtful and considerate, and like to have fun. Everybody feels comfortable around you because of your pleasant nature. When you walk into a room, people's eyes are likely to be drawn to you because of your charm.
4. Guys see you as being a thinker and a careful person. They will be really attracted to this quality in you, but you need to learn to speak your mind, otherwise people will find you too shy and quiet. Learn to relax and lighten up--it's okay to have fun sometimes. When you learn to develop your fun-loving side, guys are going to flock to your side.
5. Your boyfriend thinks that you are a real doll but this is not a totally positive thing. Sometimes you can be a bit too sweet, and come across as being helpless. If you're like this too frequently, your boyfriend and other people are likely to get tired of you having to rely on them all the time.

http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test81.aspx

Get to know yourself better....

Result of my personality test, and i think it's almost perfect...

Your view on yourself:
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education
Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:
You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.

http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

25 facts about me

1. Love sleeping so much...

2. Love Nicholas Tse since i was at SMP3 till now... he is damn hot

3. Love Justin Timberlake...

4. Workaholic...

5. Like to cry while watching sad movie

6. Used to have a gang called JASH (remembered when Angela's bracelet was caught by Bertha)

7. Ever lived at Tanjung Balai Asahan & Medan, and now at Jakarta..

8. Love BLUE so much...

9. Love to gossip with friends...

10. Ever been called to the principle's office with my other "Bajingan" friends --> caused by our Biology teacher..

11. A leader of BPB group with my member : William and Andryady, and our manager : Caroline & our consultant : Alain

12. Have a-panda-eyes..

13. Hate the person who always talk someone's bad behind them..

14. Addicted to facebook..

15. Sese is my nickname..

16. Can't stop loving Doraemon..

17. Love to hangout with my senior high school classmates..

18. Sushi-lover..

19. Addicted to Friends Serial, Heroes, and 90210..

20. Love to read Reader Digest.. got so many informations from there...

21. Taught Financial Management (as junior lecturer) and Private Mandarin while i was at University..

22. Have a Fake-Family with 5 members : Martin Handoko (1st child), Irwan Bong (2nd child), Fifi Marina (mommy), Rica Lasini (4th child), and Me (3rd child)

23. Friends is my assets in my life...

24. Love my mother so much...

25. A good secret-keeper

Friday, February 13, 2009

Monday, February 9, 2009

Wanna know how fast you can type ?

73 words

Speed test

I reached 397 points, achieved 432 of 16408 on the ranking list.
How about you?

http://indonesian-speedtest.10-fast-fingers.com/ to know how fast you can type

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